Cunnilingus

Learning to go down on a woman means understanding her pleasure anatomy — but it also requires trust, lust, and communication between both partners, no matter if it’s a one night stand or a ten-year relationship. Learning to go down on a woman means understanding her pleasure anatomy — but it also requires trust, lust, and communication between both partners, no matter if it’s a one night stand or a ten-year relationship. With a little trust and a dose of horniness, the possibilities for orgasmic cunnilingus are endless.

As a submissive i have alway been taught that “it’s not about what i want that’s important, but rather what pleases Mistress”. That’s true the majority of the time, (You can ignore this paragraph Mistress Ivana :-D ). In the case of cunnilingus, muff diving, going down, eating at the Y, etc. etc. i strongly believe that if the one doing the work (haha, it really isn’t work) has to be 100% invested in what he/she is doing and derive as much pleasure out of doing it in order for his/her Mistress to enjoy the full benefits.

When a Mistress allows me to enjoy Her sweet juices, it is a reward, and in order to show my complete appreciation, i must give 100%. Also i am a little selfish too….if i do a good enough job, maybe Mistress will “clean my pipes” one day.

As a parting gesture i leave You with this to think about: Does swollowing help or hurt ? Will doing it too often dampen Your desire to hav e full sex? Is there any time when cunnilingus is out of place.

Meeting the Mistress

Today was a most interesting day. Knowing Mistress Ivanas more in to hard play then i am, i still agreed to the possibility of serving Her as well as becoming a play partner. i was very apprehensive as to how this might work out…was i asking Her to cater to my limits, sort of topping from the bottom, or was i being realistic. i have always subscribed to the premis that it’s what pleases Mistress that’s important….my needs are secondary, however i’m not an edge player, and not sure i have the “guts” to become one.. This relationship has to be a win/win one…W/we both have to be happy and satisfied.
i went to Mistresses house to perform several tasks…mostly to give Mistress an opportunity to see if She was satisfied with my work, but also to discuss a performance contract. we discussed my limits as well as safe rules, and Her expectations. i don’t want to ruin Mistress Ivana’s reputation, but i found Her very warm and compassionate. she understood where i was coming from and was very flexible in the contract She composed. My fears were quickly erased.
To any submissive reading this, don’t ever rule out a situation because it is out of your limits. Mistress Ivana proved that the three basics of a BDSM relationshipare there and will always be there: TRUST, RESPECT, and COMMUNICATIONS. Had i ignored those today, and not trusted Mistress Ivana, i would have missed out on what may be a life changing experience.
Thank You Mistress Ivana for a wonderful morning, and i am looking forward to the future

Service Slave Experience

Honored….embarrassed…satisified. Those are the three main emotions i felt today. Today was another step in proving to Mistress Ivana that i am worthy of being Her slave.
Yes, i can do laundry, fold towels correctly, vacuume, and do dishes, but those are just baby steps in showing my respect and devotion to Mistress.
Today my instructions were to enter the house, strip naked, and await Her inspection. Mistress was busy on the telephone when i arrived, so after i stripped i picked up around the house, so vacuuming would be easier. I felt comfortable and “at home”, i trust Mistress completely so i moved around freely, starting my chores, and waited for Mistress Ivana to do Her inspection,
However, my next big test was to come, and being totally unaware, i reacted in haste, without thinking. Her front door opened and in walked a lady who i had never met before, and was unaware She was coming over. i rushed in to anotehr room, hid for a couple minutes, and put some clothes on….that’s where teh embarrassed part came in. When Mistress walked in to the room, She asked me why i got dressed, and sheepishly i explained the arrival of teh “strange” lady. Mistress laughed and explained it was another Mistress and did not ahv e to be embarrassed in front of Her. The clothing came off immediately.
That is also where the honored part came in. This slave is highly honored to know Mistress trusts me enough to introduce me to Her friends, and being naked in front of both of them shows i have nothing to hide.
Being naked today also had a bonus treat (for me at least) Mistress tied me in a harness, and allowed me to work around the house wearing it.
All in all i am very satisfied, and will work my hardest to please Mistress.
So to sum things up…i am HONORED that Mistress is considering me as Her slave,
i am EMBARRASSED that i momentarily assumed Mistress would put me in a compromising position,
and lastly i am SATISFIED that i have done my best to please Mistress

MAY IS MASTERBATION AWARENESS MONTH

Take a first step towards a happy Masterbation Awareness Month by cleaning your mind of some of the myths about masterbation you may still be holding. One of the first questions Mistress Ivana asked me was how often i masterbate. i stated that i was getting older and it just wasn’t a priority. Afterall, i stated to Mistress “i’m over 60″

Masterbation is the most commonly practiced sexual behavior in the world. Masterbation is a life long sexyal behavior. surveys show that between 70 and 90 % of all adults masterbate, and for us “old goats” 46% of males over 60 masterbate on a regular basis. i guess i have a lot of catching up to do.

For many of us brought up in a “puritanical home”, it was something bad, it would cause hair to grow in the palm of your hands. Well, let me tell you…i’m way over 60 and still don’t have a blade of hair growing in my palms.

Another myth is materbation is not REAL sex. When you masterbate you can get really aroused, which can result in a real orgasm. Now if that isn’t damn close to “real” sex, nothing is.

Myth 3 is …too much masterbation is bad for you. Well, i’ve been enjoying it the last few days, and just like too much ice cream is bad for you,,,i’m enjoying both and don’t plan on stopping.

In the short time i’ve known Mistress Ivana i feel confident that She would never do anything to harm one of Her slaves, or do something to break one of Her toys. so until She tells me to stop i just might make every month Masterbation Awareness Month